The 'Ripples Guy' impresses audiences

He discussed how to improve communication and relationships with others by trying to see the world from their view and trying to find the gift they have to offer, even if it is under one or more layers of difficulty.

Wesselmann also touched on different personality types, specifically how thinkers process information internally while feelers process by talking. With an animated, humorous approach, he described the frustration that can occur for both parties, even over something as seemingly simple as choosing a restaurant.

Emily Snitily, office assistant in the business department, said Wesselmann’s energy lit up the room and kept her interested.

“His sense of humor and personality really made for a very interesting and heartfelt presentation,” she said.

Wesselmann urged the audience to make deposits in the emotional bank accounts of others by listening.

"I need to eat vegetables because they are good for me. I don't have to like them. Sometimes relationships are like that," he said.

Wesselmann was impressed and appreciative that so many found time to attend his sessions.

“We were able to cover lots of ground in a short amount of time, and having a chance to discuss some of the ideas with each other hopefully deepened the effectiveness of the session,” he said. “Having over 150 students gather for a lecture on leadership was astounding and outstanding, and they were not only respectful by listening attentively, they seemed ready, willing and able to open both their minds and their hearts to consider some fairly provocative ideas.”

Resident Hall Adviser Kale Lytle said he appreciated Wesselmann offering students the opportunity to join his email network.

“Every Monday he sends out an email with inspirational quotes in it. Students read the quotes and then go about their day with those quotes in mind,” Lytle said.

Chelsea Ballard, project coordinator in Housing and Residence Life, said the information presented may not have been new, but it was delivered in an interesting and memorable way.

“He was probably one of the best speakers I’ve seen at the college. He gave some really good reminders about communication styles, and I felt it was very relatable to working with students and colleagues,” she said.